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I AM A MOSLEM WOMAN (rebuttal to I am a Muslim Woman)
Dr. Homa Darabi Foundation ^ | Parvin Darabi, (Iranian)

Posted on 12/05/2001 5:58:16 AM PST by Prodigal Daughter

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1 posted on 12/05/2001 5:58:16 AM PST by Prodigal Daughter
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To: bootyist-monk
When you come out with "I am a bad muslim" article?
2 posted on 12/05/2001 6:00:29 AM PST by RedBloodedAmerican
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To: Ronin; Sabertooth; 2sheep; TrueBeliever9; Thinkin' Gal; babylonian; RnMomof7; dennisw; Lent...
I think Darabi has a good grasp of reality, (or she was just tired of going to Disney World in a hundred degree heat wave wearing a burkha.)
3 posted on 12/05/2001 6:03:30 AM PST by Prodigal Daughter
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To: Prodigal Daughter
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4 posted on 12/05/2001 6:06:47 AM PST by beekeeper
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To: Prodigal Daughter
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5 posted on 12/05/2001 6:11:57 AM PST by Fiddlstix
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To: Prodigal Daughter
Thank You for the post. Very enlightening.
6 posted on 12/05/2001 6:15:48 AM PST by FR_addict
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To: Prodigal Daughter
A friend of mine lived in Saudi for a number of years. Her husband was working for a major oil company. The women of the little western colony living there couldn't go to market alone. They always shopped as a group. One day at market, she was approached by a well-dressed Arab man who told her that the sight of her red hair "offended him". He would stay with her till she purchased a head-cover. She did so immediately, not wanting to create a major incident or a problem for her husband and his company.

Her many reminiscenses of what goes on in that country were blood-curdling to me.

Leni

7 posted on 12/05/2001 6:18:23 AM PST by MinuteGal
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To: Prodigal Daughter
Male professors must teach me from behind a wall

Actually, from what we've been reading lately, that mightn't be such a bad idea.

Dan

8 posted on 12/05/2001 6:18:24 AM PST by BibChr
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To: Prodigal Daughter
This is a load of crap. The things mentioned in this "news piece" are cultural, NOT necessarily the practices of Islam. What if Christians practiced everything that was mentioned in the old testament? Would we have the type of society that we have today? Any religion, taken to "extremes", can be said to be "out of touch". There is religion, there is faith, and there is culture. Most importantly, there is a difference!!
9 posted on 12/05/2001 6:20:00 AM PST by China Clipper
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10 posted on 12/05/2001 6:20:32 AM PST by WIMom
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To: Prodigal Daughter
They differed with me over what times we are living in. It is not a democracy when a man can talk about politics without anyone threatening him. Democracy is when a woman can talk of her lover without anyone killing her. Dr. Sauad M. Al-Sabah

We on Free Republic, as opposed to Free Democracy always stress that we are a Republic and not a Democracy. This quote from Dr. Sauad M. Al-Sabah is a perfect illustration of the difference.

The good Doctor is wrong. In a pure Democracy, there is nothing to stop a woman from being legally killed by her family, her community or her Government for speaking about her lover. All that is needed to make such murders legal is an election and one "Yes" vote over 50% to make it so.

In a Republic, however, the Constitution and not the whims of the democratic mob determines the Law of the Land.

11 posted on 12/05/2001 6:22:13 AM PST by Polybius
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To: Prodigal Daughter
Yes, that would be the life I'd want - for HILLARY. Otherwise, I fail to understand how any nation or group of nations would even consider living under these rules. And to think that Iran went through a revolution for this!!

Thank you for posting this article - it has given me many insights to events that I could not understand when I was in the Sinai. And thank you for explaining to everyone how Islamic law works. The next time I hear an American woman whining about how tough life is here I'm going to make her read this post.

Peaceful religion. Sounds like they made up the rules as they went along to me.

12 posted on 12/05/2001 6:42:56 AM PST by 11B3
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To: Prodigal Daughter
While much of what is done in the name of Islam, I am reminded that, relative to other religions, it is relatively young.

Were we to compare the treatment of women and non-believers under Christian rule some 1200 years after the start of Christianity, we would find a lot of similarities.

I believe it is entirely possible that many religions go through these types of phases as they evolve. Initially, women were essentially equal under Christian doctrine, but by the dark ages women were little more than the property of their father or husband.

While not making this attitude right, we should also recognize that the past of our own religion includes some fairly unsavory facts. I'm not a sociologist, but I do find the similarities of behavior relative to time of existance for a religion interesting.

13 posted on 12/05/2001 6:48:25 AM PST by sharktrager
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To: Prodigal Daughter
should have been titled "I am a bad Moslem - by Ted Nugent"
14 posted on 12/05/2001 6:52:44 AM PST by Revelation 911
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Were we to compare the treatment of women and non-believers under Christian rule some 1200 years after the start of Christianity, we would find a lot of similarities.

I believe it is entirely possible that many religions go through these types of phases as they evolve. Initially, women were essentially equal under Christian doctrine, but by the dark ages women were little more than the property of their father or husband.

And I suppose we are to believe that chivalry was Patricia Ireland's invention? Get real.

The extent to which women became property in the middle ages had little to do with Christianity and a lot to do with the prevailing political concept being "might makes right."

In addition, you simply do not find the kind of oppression commanded in the Koran in the bible. Yes, a distinction was made, and no, women were not as free or empowered as men.

Christianity, however, raised the status of women. No longer could a wife simply be discarded, and a husband who mistreated his wife is told that his prayers are ignored. The limitations placed on women are only in the context of worship and marriage.

15 posted on 12/05/2001 7:05:25 AM PST by hopespringseternal
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To: hopespringseternal
Interesting thay you raise Patricia Ireland since, nowhere, did I discuss either groups like the NOW, or even government's involvement.

While the Bible may not mention much of what was done to women during the Dark Ages, it was done under the umbrella of religion. There is not a European power that did not claim that their rulers, and laws, were ordained by God. The church itself was a political power and was involved in much of the same behavior I mentioned.

Prior to her burning at the stake, Joan of Arc was raped by her guards. This was not viewed as improper because, as a criminal and a heretic, she had no rights.

A woman who was accused of adultry could be thrown out of the house by her husband and was left to starve.

Upon the death of her husband, it was the man's children, and not his wife, that inherited the estate.

Women could not refuse sex with their husband, and a spousal rape was not a crime. This was enforced by the church.

While female castration was not practiced, it was not at all uncommon for women to be forced to wear a chastity belt, which, while less severe, would hardly be considered humane by our current standards.

It was not at all uncommon for girls as young as 12 to be married off by their fathers for financial or political gain. In fact, Lucretzia Borgia (the daughter of the Pope) was married at 12 to cement a political alliance for the Vatican. The church then issued annulments to her on the false grounds of impotance of her spouse, so she would be free to marry a more politically useful husband.

The fact is that a superficial sociological review shows a great deal of similarilty if one compares behaviors relative to the date of founding of these religions.

Wrong is wrong, but I am amazed that Christians like myself are calling for the destruction of a religion based on beliefs and actions that, quite frankly, are not too dissimilar to our own history.

16 posted on 12/05/2001 7:25:44 AM PST by sharktrager
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To: hopespringseternal
Seems like the root problem is sin.Who can overcome the power of this virus that infects all of us.
17 posted on 12/05/2001 7:29:36 AM PST by Micah
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To: China Clipper
What if Christians practiced everything that was mentioned in the old testament?

Christians don't base their practice on the Old Testament (ex. "an eye for an eye"). That was for the Hebrews before the coming of Christ. Christians base their practice on the teachings of Christ in the New Testament (ex. "turn the other cheek").

18 posted on 12/05/2001 7:30:48 AM PST by Quester
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To: sharktrager
The fact is that a superficial sociological review shows a great deal of similarilty if one compares behaviors relative to the date of founding of these religions.

Wrong is wrong, but I am amazed that Christians like myself are calling for the destruction of a religion based on beliefs and actions that, quite frankly, are not too dissimilar to our own history.

There is a huge difference here that you simply ignore. The Jewish Torah and Christian bible simply do not authorize the same kind of opression that the Koran does.

Sure, those calling themselves Jews and Christians have done it, but they did it in rebellion to God, not in His service no matter how ardently they claim it.

Moslems, on the other hand, are authorized by the Koran to oppress as much as they like.

And as far as those self-proclaimed Christians of the middle ages go, I hold them in no higher regard than the terrorist barbarians we now face. The color of their skin or the origin of their tribe is irrelevant. They were barbarians then, many Moslems are barbarians now.

19 posted on 12/05/2001 7:38:48 AM PST by hopespringseternal
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To: China Clipper
Get an education. The practices are based on Hadith and Koran and Mohammed's life.

Old Testament: Rahab a harlot wasn't killed for harlotry. Deborah was a judge. Gomer

And then we have the Koran, nine-year-old Aisha and her dolls, but wait, he starts dreaming of her when she's age five.

Gen. 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Deut 24:5 When a man hath taken a new wife, he shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business: [but] he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which he hath taken. Proverbs 5:18: Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. Malachi 2:14-15 Yet ye say, Wherefore? Because the LORD hath been witness between thee and the wife of thy youth, against whom thou hast dealt treacherously: yet [is] she thy companion, and the wife of thy covenant. And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.

Hadith: Sahih Bukhari, Volume 9, Book 86, Number 98:

Narrated Abu Huraira:

The Prophet said, "A virgin should not be married till she is asked for her consent; and the matron should not be married till she is asked whether she agrees to marry or not." It was asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How will she(the virgin) express her consent?" He said, "By keeping silent." Some people said, "If a virgin is not asked for her consent and she is not married, and then a man, by playing a trick presents two false witnesses that he has married her with her consent and the judge confirms his marriage as a true one, and the husband knows that the witnesses were false ones, then there is no harm for him to consummate his marriage with her and the marriage is regarded as valid."

(Ay yay yay!)

20 posted on 12/05/2001 7:47:07 AM PST by Prodigal Daughter
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