sara.. I was reading in the CE, trying to find out the succession order of the popes, and by accident ran into this.
Please comment.
Under Peter, Saint
Simon settled in Capharnaum, where he was living with his mother-in-law in his own house (Matthew 8:14; Luke 4:38) at the beginning of Christ's public ministry (about A.D. 26-28). Simon was thus married, and, according to Clement of Alexandria (Stromata, III, vi, ed. Dindorf, II, 276), had children. The same writer relates the tradition that Peter's wife suffered martyrdom (ibid., VII, xi ed. cit., III, 306). Concerning these facts, adopted by Eusebius (Hist. Eccl., III, xxxi) from Clement, the ancient Christian literature which has come down to us is silent. Simon pursued in Capharnaum the profitable occupation of fisherman in Lake Genesareth, possessing his own boat (Luke 5:3).
(NOTE) Since I have pointed out previously how Euseius could not be totally trusted in his conclusions, I will not consider it proof of my personal theory of why Peter was considered the leader because of his age and position in life.
Going back to the scripture passages on Peter, as a person who is a mother-in-law to my sons'wives,a person who had a mother-in-law for fifteen years after my husband died and as a daughtter to a mother,my experience leads me to believe that the situation at Peter's house was highly unusual if his wife was still alive.
On the other hand if I put on my feminist hat, it could well be that waiting on the men was what put the mother-in=law into her sick bed to begin with,then while she was abed Peter's wife had to serve the men and when mom-in-law recovered,Peter's wife took to the sick bed. Sounds like I may have just hit on the truth.(tongue in cheek)