Ukraine didn’t have a choice once Russian Nazis invaded them and genocidally tried to erase their nation. Russian women throw themselves that any foreigner passing by. Ask me how I know that. LOL. Ukrainian women at least have a choice in that matter.
Ukraine had plenty of choice BEFORE it decided to clamor for NATO membership. In hindsight, it was a horrible mistake, and the country is now in shambles. If Ukraine would have copied Belorussia, there would be no need for Russia to invade. And Ukraine could continue it’s reputation as most corrupt country in Europe, peacefully.