“A lot of MAGA hunks will want to court her, whenever she’s ready to meet someone new.”
She may have no interest in meeting someone new. Met my husband when we were 15. Married at 19. He passed almost 6 years ago after almost 35 years of marriage. No one can come close to him in my eyes and I’ve zero need for a substitute. That’s just me though. Some women want to marry again. As for the MAGA hunks, I had a number of guys want to date me within the first two years. Had to run them off. One rather harshly.
Hi, sevinofnine. I’m nineoftwelve. We seems to share quite a bit in common. My husband of almost 32 years died 17 months ago. I’m lonely but almost get sick at the thought of being with anybody but him. Something I learned after our first child was stillborn at 42 weeks: no matter how many other children you have none of them replace the one you lost. They give their own joy but they can’t take away the sorrow.
I pray for this woman and her daughter. Sounds like they lost a great man, and the cost of great love is great sorrow.
I’m sorry for your loss but I’m glad you have the strength you need.
Sorry for your loss. 54 is way too young.
I had an oddly similar, yet opposite experience.
I met my wife when we were 16 and 17. We were a good teenage couple, but not compatible as adults. I tried to stick it out, especially after we had our son, but it just got worse and worse.
We were together for 38 years and I’ve been in my own place for the last 6 years.
I don’t want to get remarried either, but while you have no need for a substitute for what you had, I’m enjoying the alternatives to what I had!
My wife and I have been together over 30 yrs, and she says the same thing, that if I die - she’s done!