No, that's a loser's mentality. We were also told in 2016 no Republican can win in Pennsylvania - "that's just the way it is, folks" so don't even try. My favorite radio host said that. Well, he was wrong and Trump won PA. Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can achive. You got to get your mind right. Then things start becoming possible again. Like in NJ.
And by the way Trump won Cape May County by 16 points in 2020.
You are repeating what I said - Cape May County is a deep red county. Trump will need to swing enough people in Bergen, Union, Middlesex (heavily Asian), and Camden Counties in order to win. GOP hasn’t won any of those counties since 1988 (ditto Burlington which has less people).