If she was my daughter she’d never be allowed in my house again. She belongs to the Montana bureaucrats now. They can finish raising their freak.
Part of me agrees with you. The government may have done this family a favor by abducting the kid and moving it to another state.
She is fourteen. You can be sure a therapist or teacher or people on social media or friends told her any emotional problems (you know so atypical of teens/S)must be because she was really a male. They most likely told her precisely what she needed to do in order to get the diagnosis (suicide attempts for example). They also would have drummed into her that her parents must not love her if they did not affirm her “real self”. You could consider it a form of mental torture and brainwashing. To blame her for this is wrong. The adults are the ones to blame. But nobody will hold them responsible.