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Being productive and frugal, but neither make you happy. Perceived success can bring happiness. Lasting happiness can also be imagined. It's not an easy thing to grasp, even more difficult to live in front of your children.
1 posted on 01/07/2024 10:44:22 AM PST by aspasia
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To: aspasia

“Ask Jesus into your heart.”

“He loves you and will always be with you, help you and take care of you.”


2 posted on 01/07/2024 10:48:00 AM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: aspasia

Studies have show that the LACK of finances or money is a DISSATISFIER (makes sense) BUT HAVING MONEY is NOT a satisfier (one less dissatisfaction, but go elsewhere for satisfaction).


3 posted on 01/07/2024 10:50:54 AM PST by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: aspasia

Happiness is your number of followers on TikTok.


4 posted on 01/07/2024 10:51:34 AM PST by FarCenter
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Throw into the mix the fact that children today are bombarded with bad news. Racism is everywhere! Climate Change is going to destroy the Earth!

Heck, when I was a kid my biggest worry was…well, nothing. I had an old but decent baseball glove, and mom always had a nice meal ready. Good times.


5 posted on 01/07/2024 10:55:44 AM PST by Leaning Right (The steal is real.)
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Life is very complex today and hits kids with problems their own parents never see coming. Parents need to lead by example and involve their kids in adult problem-solving, time and resource managent, and independent living ASAP. However technologically advanced and “civilized” it seems to be (or did), it’s still a wild world and parents need to prepare their kids to live in it.

I know. It doesn’t help that many adults in their 30’s haven’t progressed developmentally out of their teens yet.


7 posted on 01/07/2024 10:57:39 AM PST by BradyLS (DO NOT FEED THE BEARS!)
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I’d like to see people embrace humility.

A lot of people are walking through life as if they are the superstar at the heart of everyone’s big movie. It’s all about them. You need to shut up — because only my opinion matters. I am always right. You are always wrong. Pay attention to me because I am a very important person.


8 posted on 01/07/2024 10:59:10 AM PST by ClearCase_guy
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--- "Children can easily get the wrong message about happiness In my experience, people are happiest when their life includes some type of meaningful, productive activity. Unfortunately, we are constantly being bombarded with the message that happiness comes from consumption. "

Dialectic materialism. Yup, good old Marx, variations spread through the Frankfurt School, the French "intellectuals" and into American classrooms for decades.

Consume. Material. It is the world and the worldview, and today's corporations and politicians and "thinkers" think consumption and consumables and consuming and....

Alongside with consumption is 'discardability'. Fetuses can be discarded. Merit can be discarded. Accomplishment can be discarded. Just get the latest device, watch the latest entertainment, protest the latest target. Material.

In a world without God, there are gods and they are demanding the due daily.

11 posted on 01/07/2024 11:02:53 AM PST by Worldtraveler once upon a time (Degrow government)
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There number 1 thing is nonsense.

Hard work
Honesty
Learning
Politeness
God
Independence

“enjoy life???” That’s all they are learning.


12 posted on 01/07/2024 11:04:15 AM PST by Williams (Stop Tolerating The Intolerant)
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I know a guy that is pretty well known that teaches a class at UCLA on “How to be Happy”, Yes I am serious. Anyway I have always been pretty much the happiest person on the planet every day, just because I woke up!!. So he asks me straight up, why are always so happy. I responded immediately with, I don’t watch Television or partake in anything involving the Entertainment industry, I’m not an actor and am not trying to become one, and those 2 things appear to me as the only reason to ever complain about life, and after a couple near death experiences, you realize that life is short and enjoy everyday as if it’s your last.

Get you children As far away from the entertainment industry as possible. They will be your most formidable enemy.


18 posted on 01/07/2024 11:18:08 AM PST by eyeamok
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Holiness brings happiness. Sin on the other hand brings misery.


21 posted on 01/07/2024 11:37:40 AM PST by one guy in new jersey
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Eva Moskowitz ——— Bill de Blasio’s future political aspirations right in his -—, and for that we should all be grateful. This article is a joke.


23 posted on 01/07/2024 11:45:59 AM PST by StAnDeliver (TrumpII)
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To: aspasia
How do you fight back?

TURN OFF the television!!!

26 posted on 01/07/2024 12:32:22 PM PST by NorthMountain (... the right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed)
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Manners.


30 posted on 01/07/2024 2:19:41 PM PST by moovova ("The NEXT election is the most important election of our lifetimes!“ LOL...)
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We just SPANKED our kids when they misbehaved. After a few times, the rest was easy.


31 posted on 01/07/2024 3:00:28 PM PST by BobL (Trump gets my vote, even if I have to write him in; Millions of others will do the same)
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“we will be happy only if we buy a fancier car or a bigger house.”

It might boost a person’s self-esteem to have status symbols to flaunt but they can’t guarantee happiness.


37 posted on 01/07/2024 3:53:11 PM PST by equaviator (If 60 is the new 40 then 35 must be the new 15.)
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