Very insulting.
The statement includes the implication that “domestic violence” is a reasonable probability.
The heck with that. I would have walked away right then and there. I don’t need some self-admitted hot-head telling me hypocritically not to be a hot-head.
OK, since you don’t seem to be very well liked in FR due to your anger issues (probably a wife/kid beater too) along with very poor reading skills and comprehension, let me explain.
I had NO reason to walk away. We were having dinner at his mother’s house one Sunday and he jokingly said that the Bible said he can beat his wife. She winked at me and told him that she’d better never hear he hit me. She also told him that with all this red hair, he might regret it if he did. I assured her that if he ever hit me that I’d just walk away and leave his punishment up to her. That’s why I said it as a joke, but you obviously have no capacity for that.
After the way my dad treated us and my mom when he got stressed or mad, I decided that I would never be treated that way, and I would never treat anybody else that way.
I worked for two years for CPS and saw first-hand what angry, mean parents can do to kids.
We have been married for 40 years. We knew each other for 10 before that. He is 85 now and mostly bedridden. I’m his caretaker and have been for a while. We would have not made that milestone if either of us were violent.
Put some ice on the anger and woman hate. It’s not healthy.