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No, Sen. Murphy, government cannot fix loneliness
Washington Examiner ^ | July 20, 2023 | Jack Elbaum

Posted on 07/21/2023 5:30:55 PM PDT by Twotone

On Tuesday, Sen. Chris Murphy (D-CT) announced on Twitter that he is introducing “a groundbreaking bill — the National Strategy for Social Connection Act.” Its goal is to address the “epidemic” of loneliness and social isolation in the United States right now that threatens “individual health and longevity” and decreases “community resilience, safety, and economic prosperity.”

But while this is certainly a problem that must be addressed — and I applaud Sen. Murphy for bringing the subject into the national conversation — it is not one government can solve.

First, we ought to understand this crisis — and it is a crisis — as one of the most significant challenges we face right now. According to a study from Harvard’s School of Education, “36% of all Americans—including 61% of young adults and 51% of mothers with young children—feel ‘serious loneliness.’” Twenty-two percent of millennials say they have no friends, and “51% of young Americans say they feel down, depressed or hopeless.”

Tim Carney, in his book Alienated America, carefully lays out the data on declining church attendance, marriage rates, and civil society involvement. It is impossible to read it and come away without a sense that there is something seriously wrong.

But, again, this is not a problem to be solved primarily by the government. After all, a major spike in this type of isolation was a direct consequence of government policy itself.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, the government shut people in their homes, forced children to “learn” online, and mandated that everyone must cover their faces for years on end, which undeniably created distance between people and made it harder to connect. Taken all together, these pandemic restrictions surely had the effect of exacerbating isolation.

Additionally, just a look at what this bill recommends makes it clear just how inadequate it is. It wants to establish an office in the executive branch on combating loneliness and strengthening communities, requiring that we establish a “national strategy on social connection,” and likely issue official federal guidelines on the subject as well.

But it seems quite odd that anybody would look to the faceless blob that is our federal government, the least personal entity there can possibly be, for guidance on social connection. It is a contradiction in terms.

Carney identifies the two causes of our isolation as hyper-individualism on one hand and over-centralization on the other. Each has subsumed the “middling” institutions, which are the things that actually breed such connections. The bill introduced by Sen. Murphy is a prime example of over-centralization, where a thoroughly non-personal, huge entity takes up the functions that used to be performed by smaller community groups.

As such, it makes the problem worse because it orients our energy toward a centralized, faceless, totalizing force rather than an actual local, human one.

Economist-philosopher F.A. Hayek agreed. He defined the “fatal conceit” as the belief that “man is able to shape the world around him according to his wishes.” But this is folly because it assumes that human nature is such that we can account for all the complexities of the real world while designing it — despite the fact it is not.

The way things can and will change is through a bottom-up, organic process where people return to the things that traditionally gave them meaning and social connection, such as religion, family, and those “mediating institutions” so vital to a strong community.

It is a far more difficult and long path than merely passing a bill, holding a fancy celebration once it is signed, and then acting surprised when it does nothing. But because this is, at root, a problem of culture, its solution must be primarily one of culture, too.

The one area in which it makes sense — and is actually quite important — for the government to get involved, though, is with respect to education. Yes, it is a “government institution,” but it is also thoroughly personal and an institution whose purpose is, as conservative intellectual Russell Kirk wrote, “to develop the mental and moral faculties of the individual person.”

This, however, is the exception rather than the rule, it ideally would happen on the state or local level, and Murphy’s plan does not address it.

In short: The proposed bill remains imprudent mainly because the federal government is simply not the institution that should be taking up this problem. It is good that it is a subject being brought into the mainstream, though, and I hope it sparks real conversation that can eventually start to shift the tide.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: chrismurphy; loneliness
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1 posted on 07/21/2023 5:30:55 PM PDT by Twotone
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To: Twotone

Issue everyone who is lonely a couple of illegal aliens to take home with them.


2 posted on 07/21/2023 5:33:10 PM PDT by FlingWingFlyer (No more new laws until we start enforcing the crap we already have!)
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To: Twotone

Perhaps a beer summit. I seem to recall that started where we are today.


3 posted on 07/21/2023 5:34:52 PM PDT by TornadoAlley3 ( I'm Proud To Be An Okie From Muskogee)
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To: Twotone

“I applaud Sen. Murphy for bringing the subject into the national conversation”

This is total BS.

I never want to hear from Sen. Murphy again. Ever.


4 posted on 07/21/2023 5:39:46 PM PDT by Paladin2
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To: Twotone

I like being left alone.


5 posted on 07/21/2023 5:41:34 PM PDT by wally_bert (I cannot be sure for certain, but in my personal opinion I am certain that I am not sure..)
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To: Twotone

A look at this insanity from last week:

https://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/4168437/posts

Forced friendships eh? 😂👍


6 posted on 07/21/2023 5:42:42 PM PDT by rktman (Destroy America from within? Check! WTH? Enlisted USN 1967 to end up with this💩? 🚫💉)
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To: Twotone

Not govt’s job or role. Benevolent tyranny will increase.


7 posted on 07/21/2023 5:43:13 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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8 posted on 07/21/2023 5:45:25 PM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (America Owes Anita Bryant An Enormous Apology)
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To: Twotone
Lonely days, lonely nights...
9 posted on 07/21/2023 5:45:37 PM PDT by chajin ("There is no other name under heaven given among people by which we must be saved." Acts 4:12)
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To: Twotone

You will report to the Companionship Center of your district according to the attached schedule. Failure to attend for the assigned hours is a violation of federal law.


10 posted on 07/21/2023 5:46:35 PM PDT by HartleyMBaldwin
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To: Twotone

“Bowling Alone”, Putnam, 2000

From over 20 years ago, long before the current intense state of alienation. This is a long term trend.


11 posted on 07/21/2023 6:00:21 PM PDT by buwaya (Strategic imperatives )
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To: Twotone

Government cannot fix loneliness?

Then what good is it?


12 posted on 07/21/2023 6:06:22 PM PDT by frank ballenger (You have summoned up a thundercloud. You're gonna hear from me. Anthem by Leonard Cohen)
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To: HartleyMBaldwin

The way things are going, they will force people of the same sex into a relationship. Sort of a homosexual form of busing.


13 posted on 07/21/2023 6:16:58 PM PDT by fhayek
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To: Twotone

Not even a night at the neighborhood bar...

The other day I was listening to Billy Joel’s “Piano Man” and paying close attention to the lyrics - It does a great job of capturing the feelings of so many people trying to escape their lonely life by drinking with other lonely strangers.

“Yes, they’re sharing a drink they call loneliness
But it’s better than drinking alone”

https://youtu.be/gxEPV4kolz0


14 posted on 07/21/2023 6:36:39 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: Twotone

From the people who locked everyone down for 2 years and would have continued if Republicans did not sweep VA elections because of it.


15 posted on 07/21/2023 6:37:05 PM PDT by KC_Conspirator
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To: Twotone

Way to many “experts” telling people how to live


16 posted on 07/21/2023 6:40:46 PM PDT by markman46 (engage brain before using keyboard!!!)
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To: Twotone; SaveFerris


"Loneliness, that's the bottom line. I was never happy as a child... Christmas, Ted, what does that mean to you? It was living hell. Do you know what it's like falling in the mud and getting kicked, in the head? With an iron boot? Of course you don't, no one does, that never happens. Sorry, Ted, it's a dumb question, skip that."
17 posted on 07/21/2023 6:47:15 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: dfwgator

Force everyone living alone to take in a partner. Sleep in the same bed.

A cure for the homeless problem. Think market forces.


18 posted on 07/21/2023 7:02:14 PM PDT by DIRTYSECRET (e allowed )
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To: Twotone; All

“I’m from the goverment and I’m here to help.”


19 posted on 07/21/2023 8:16:49 PM PDT by cowboyusa (YESHUA IS KING OF AMERICA! AMERICA FIRST! DEATH TO MARXISM AN GLOBALISM! )
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To: Twotone

I remember reading about this nonsense in the Constitution and Bill of Rights.


20 posted on 07/21/2023 9:16:16 PM PDT by Road Warrior ‘04 (BOYCOTT Anheuser Busch, the NFL, MLB, NBA, NASCAR & Faux Snooze! Molon Labe! Oathkeeper! )
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