My neighbor is going through this with his wife right now. He was talking with my husband last weekend, wondering if it was selfish that he just wanted it to end. I told my husband it’s not selfish, it’s REAL. NOBODY wants to see their loved one suffer like this. I can’t imagine what he’s dealing with. She’s lasted longer than all the doctors thought she would, and is in IMMENSE pain, pretty much on permanent Oxycontin. I will not judge anyone in these circumstances.
It’s terrible.