According to Wikipedia (I know) Federalists had their hand in the New Jersey reforms that you attributed to Thomas Jefferson. Maybe you over-drove your headlights; for the first time ever.
“Women voters became convenient scapegoats to blame for candidate's losses. Women were sometimes called “petticoat electors” and were considered to be easy to manipulate and generally incompetent. The Federalists also believed that denying women the right to vote would help them politically against the Republicans in New Jersey.”
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_suffrage_in_New_Jersey
Jeffersondem:
"Federalists had their hand in the New Jersey reforms that you attributed to Thomas Jefferson." Jeffersonian Democratics lead the charge to eliminate property owning requirements for voting and they were in charge in New Jersey in 1807.
Property owning freed-blacks could vote in New York, Pennsylvania and New Jersey:
"Prior to the Civil War, free Black people had suffrage in New York, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania.
However, the right to vote was rescinded in New Jersey (1807)[3] and Pennsylvania (1838).[4]
New York State's Constitution of 1821 imposed a heavy property ownership requirement on Black voters (only), in effect disenfranchising almost all of them."
I think it's still true: where property ownership was the main requirement for voting, women and freed-blacks could and sometimes did vote.
When property owning requirements were first removed, so were the franchises for women & freed-blacks.