Are we going to cuddle kids forever, like snowflakes? By the time someone is a toddler they should be able to take care of themselves and support themselves.
You have a problem with her palor?
The silver lining to this otherwise terrible situation.
Sheesh- you’d think the kids were defenseless or something-
i had a full time job a 3- took care of myself most of the time too- it was tough work messing up the house day in and day out- pulling things off the tables, spilling my soup everywhere- i dis all this by myself and didnt’ need parents aroudn to help me either- i was almost entirely independent at 3-
When they get a little older the kids can have the tattoo place put “mom” and a heart shaped bouquet of roses on their arms.
Nothing like a mom.
My mother was a psychologically abusive narcissistic man hating alcoholic. The minister at her funeral said “And all of you——all of you——say only good things about her today. Her battles with the world are over now.”
Surprise...surprise...surprise...
I care about my keeedz
God gave her a vocation when He gave her these kids with her actions. She dropped the ball. She needs a psych evaluation. The father needs to take them and fo his best...get help from family or church family.
Kids having to raise themselves has been a regular thing throughout history.
My own Grandfather wound up alone in Peru at the age of 13 but it was the 1880’s and it was a different world then. He learned the languages and how to build things. Got rich then poor then rich again and raised 12 kids.