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Americans can tolerate less than 4 hours with family on holidays, survey finds
The Hill ^ | 12/20/2022 | Dustin Lattimer and Nexstar Media Wire

Posted on 12/20/2022 8:02:28 AM PST by ChicagoConservative27

According to the survey, 75 percent of respondents will hit a point where they need time away from the crowd. They can be creative in their ways of escaping — 1 in 4 has hidden in a relative’s house to take a moment alone, while 37 percent have gone so far as to make an excuse and leave the house altogether.

The survey was commissioned by Motel 6 and conducted by OnePoll. It examined the delicate balance between wanting to spend time with family and also needing a bit of space.

Of those surveyed, 95 percent believe it’s important to spend the holidays with family, and 2 in 5 of those planning to stay with family admit that it can be a stressful experience.

The average respondent is staying with family for 3 1/2 days this holiday season –- but the sleeping arrangements might be one reason they’re not staying longer. When hosting family, nearly 40 percent say finding sleeping arrangements is one of the most stressful parts of preparing for guests.

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KEYWORDS: americans; christmasvacation; family; holidays; jackdaniels; tolerate
I never felt this way.
1 posted on 12/20/2022 8:02:28 AM PST by ChicagoConservative27
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To: ChicagoConservative27

The liberal ones are less than an hour. They just can’t seem to keep their yapper shut.


2 posted on 12/20/2022 8:06:49 AM PST by albie
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To: ChicagoConservative27

No wonder better-half spends so much time with Grandchildren


3 posted on 12/20/2022 8:07:03 AM PST by no-to-illegals (The enemy has US surrounded. May God have mercy on them.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

“but the sleeping arrangements might be one reason they’re not staying longer.”

This message brought to you by Motel 6!


4 posted on 12/20/2022 8:10:57 AM PST by TexasGator (!!!)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

Being so far away from my children and grand children and great grand children I enjoy fussing with wife (both 80) and she is immobile so we plan as if it were our last. Yes they all visited last Christmas (well most of them) I cooked and had a nice time.


5 posted on 12/20/2022 8:11:39 AM PST by boomop1 (term limits NOW)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

Thank goodness we don’t have that problem.


6 posted on 12/20/2022 8:11:40 AM PST by SaxxonWoods (Successful People Have a Sense of Gratitude. Unsuccessful People Have a Sense of Entitlement)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
I never felt this way.

Me neither. My family loves to hang out with each other and cut up. In fact, we have such a good time on Thanksgiving day we almost always meet up again 2 days later on Saturday for a few hours.

Of course, that could have more to do with us all love watching the Iron Bowl together.

7 posted on 12/20/2022 8:12:46 AM PST by Tell It Right (1st Thessalonians 5:21 -- Put everything to the test, hold fast to that which is true.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
those planning to stay with family admit that it can be a stressful experience

More stressful than staying at a Motel 6?

8 posted on 12/20/2022 8:17:29 AM PST by Jeff Chandler (THE ISSUE IS NEVER THE ISSUE. THE REVOLUTION IS THE ISSUE.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
My younger daughter and her husband have six children. Back in the old days, our house was 1,200 square feet, with one bathroom. It was just the wife and me, but so insistent was she on having everybody gathered for Christmas that every inch of the house, every spare bedroom and half the basement was crammed with beds. The kids were pretty good, and the atmosphere was always happy, with no interpersonal dramatics to worry about, but at the end of their stay (through New Year's Day) I was ready to give up on marriage and find myself a quiet monastery to spend the rest of my days in celibacy and peace. I wouldn't even have minded the haircut, since I already (as my kids often pointed out) had it.

The moment they left I'd heave a deep, contented sigh and say, "Hush! Listen to the silence!" Which pissed my wife off something royally. But I couldn't help it. It was just the way I felt.

9 posted on 12/20/2022 8:19:27 AM PST by Mr Ramsbotham ("God is a spirit, and man His means of walking on the earth.")
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To: ChicagoConservative27

10 posted on 12/20/2022 8:22:25 AM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion, or satire, or both.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27
And they were all singing this song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fd3NG2JX6lc

11 posted on 12/20/2022 8:23:24 AM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

It’s the most wonderful time of the year when we all get together for food, drink, and joyful conversation. We all look forward to it! I have the kindest, loving, wonderful family. They are a joy to be around!


12 posted on 12/20/2022 8:26:07 AM PST by notaliberal (St. Michael the Archangel, defend us in battle,)
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To: Tolerance Sucks Rocks

Lyrics still valid today.

We’re all bloody worthless, just greedy human scum.
The numbers all add up to a negative sum.

Where is our future, the things we’ve done and said!
Let’s just push the button, we’d be better off dead!

The sins of all our fathers, being dumped on us — the sons.
The only choice we’re given is how many megatons?


13 posted on 12/20/2022 8:32:13 AM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either opinion, or satire, or both.)
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To: ChicagoConservative27

i did. after i got married and moved away, my sisters and parents were like strangers.
and don’t get me started on the in laws.
We stayed in hotels as soon as we could afford to.


14 posted on 12/20/2022 8:39:38 AM PST by ronniesgal (Just GET A JOB already. )
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To: Red Badger; Daffynition; Phinneous; SJackson; Keflavik76

According to the survey, 75 percent of respondents will hit a point where they need time away from the crowd. They can be creative in their ways of escaping -- 1 in 4 has hidden in a relative's house to take a moment alone, while 37 percent have gone so far as to make an excuse and leave the house altogether.

Christmas -- it's the yearly sacrifice for all the family. Peace on Earth, Good Will Toward Men. It's all in there. Weird stuff.

"I don't know what to say except it's Christmas, and we're all in misery." ~ Ellen Griswold

1 Samuel 20

5. And David said to Jonathan, Behold, tomorrow is the new moon, and I should not fail to sit with the king at meal; but let me go, that I may hide myself in the field until the third day at evening:
6. If your father should miss me, then say, David earnestly asked leave of me that he might run to Beth-Lehem his city; for there is a yearly sacrifice there for all the family:
7. If he says thus, It is well; your servant shall have peace; but if he should be very angry, then you should know that he is determined to do evil:

Sunday, December 25, 2022
1 Tevet, 5783

Chanukah Day 7
Rosh Chodesh Tevet
Jewish History
Esther made Queen

Next thing you know, the son of that red-haired youth (otherwise known as a ginger) will be found stashed deep cover in Bethlehem, which is a house of bread.

The great God of Abraham always gets there first to put His sticky prints on absolutely everything!

Like father like son! Just the type of son who'd get "lost" in the Temple for three days, going about his father's business, asking questions.

While mortals sleep
The angles keep
Their watch of wondering love.

Nat King Cole - O Little Town Of Bethlehem

The survey was commissioned by Motel 6...

We'll leave the light on for you.

15 posted on 12/20/2022 9:22:47 AM PST by Ezekiel (🆘️ "Come fly with US". Ingenuity -- because the Son of David begins with Mars ♂️, aka every man)
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To: albie
The liberal ones are less than an hour. They just can’t seem to keep their yapper shut.

So true. Source of much conflict when visiting liberal relatives. My kids were anxious for us to leave. Now, as adults with their own kids, they don't want to visit those liberal relatives and they're becoming a distant memory.

16 posted on 12/20/2022 12:51:16 PM PST by roadcat
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To: ChicagoConservative27
Heck I stayed overnight the day before Christmas and day after with family....unlike some in the UK....


17 posted on 12/20/2022 9:23:46 PM PST by caww (O death, when you seized my Lord, you lost your grip on me......Augustine)
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