That hasn’t been my experience.
I think there are probably numerous reasons for homosexuality. In males, some are abused in childhood, some turn away from domineering mothers, and some are alienated by cruel or distant fathers. The latter seem to gravitate toward their mothers and the feminine, and remain fond of women.
The two I’ve known well were very kind, generous people who were close to lots of women.
I’ve often pondered the same.
I’ve also wondered if there’s a biological reason for this.
Just as sicile cell anemia is a reaction from malaria plagued regions, the human body adapts to the environment around it.
I have a theory that once a population has reached a level where more breeding individuals become a threat for scare resources and an “internal switch” happens to produce non breeders. The more masculine homosexuals add in the defense of the tribe and the effeminate homosexuals help with the female responsibilities.
It’s just my off the wall theory why homosexal behavior pops up in every society throughout time.