When my Mother was pregnant with me she had complications near birth time. My Father was told to make a choice and he said to save his wife as she would be able to have another baby some other time. My Mother insisted that I be born. My Mother died about 15 years ago at age 86. I’ll be 80 next month.
I’m glad you both made it, but I doubt very much that the ‘complication’ was an ectopic pregnancy.