‘”consent” can be misused to justify anything, including nonconsensual sadism—because in the new order of things, “abuse can be hidden or left uninterrogated as someone’s private ‘kink.’”’
Rank nonsense. Dump and cut off all contact with the freak after the first instance of sadism, and hiding and “interrogation” become moot points. Go to bed with him knowing what he plans to do to you there and you’ve consented - and need to examine your lack of self-respect.
Well said.