Mine too! Which is why I oppose Russia taking over random European countries, threatening NATO, and violating every arms agreement they have ever signed. Same thing for China.
Threatening Ukraine doesn’t threaten NATO. NATO threatened Russia long before they threatened us simply by trying to put Ukraine into NATO. NATO dwarfs Russia militarily. It isn’t threatened any more than an ugly feminist claiming she is afraid of being raped. Just not gonna happen.
Sure send Ukraine weapons to end the war quickly. Kick ass but also sue for peace, go neutral. But end it now before it blows up bigly and you have no food or have an H-Bomb ruin your whole day.