A lot of women are attracted to this life. In Islam, the traditional gender roles that have worked throughout all of humanity are still in effect. Not all women want a pink pussy hat-wearing emasculated soyboy. They want a man who takes charge and tells them what to do.
And Dubai has the nicest, most opulent shopping malls in the world with plenty of fashion stores for women. Their women may dress modestly in public but when they get behind the giant stone privacy walls blocking the view to their palatial homes, they're dressed as sexy as anyone else.
Lots of women get trapped behind Islamic lines. Even Dubai is somewhat of an illusion. You have 5 star motels with raw sewage washing up on its beachs and essentially slave labor imported from poor countries making everything over there seem so grand.
Say what you will about Islam, they got it right on the modern gender theory part. More so than the West.