Right? I agree with everything you’re saying. However, to get too in-depth about, for example, the resources Military vets have and why they are either inadequate or not being appropriately administered, might engender needless argument. Especially if the argument was with someone with as little information as me.
Love and understanding are often doled out to those who least deserve them.
It is a sad fact that many veterans who need it the most are the ones who walk away or refuse services.
The ones you worry about the most are often those who refuse to believe anything is wrong with them - you are wrong not them.
It really is a mess but I will say that some of the nicest and most compassionate people in the world are other vets who try to help them who were able to deal with their own demons. They demonstrate the best of humanity in my book.