Wow that’s harsh. Yeah I find that even a few seconds of exposure to porn - especially if I wasn’t expecting to see it - will stick with me for a long time. Not in the way the producers intend for it to, either. I don’t remember what the body parts are doing so much as the empty, angry faces. People losing their souls, bit by bit (and sometimes all in one fell swoop). Faces of drug addicts who are only thinking of the next fix. Faces of desperate people who owe money to some gang. Faces of people who get caught in something they think is a lark and an easy way to make money, realizing this is going to be it, this is the way it’s going to stay and it wasn’t just a lark.
Your son and daughter are still young; they can always change. Pray for ‘em.
I pray for them both, and their spouses, when I say my Rosary. My middle child is married to a great guy who adores her and they have 2 gorgeous kids. She’s done everything right in her life, while the other 2 have always chosen a more difficult path. I love all 3 the same, but it’s hard to watch those 2 make such heart wrenching choices for themselves. I have to hope that everything works out the way it’s supposed to in order to put my mind at ease.