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Mom Sues Cops Who Arrested Her for Leaving 14-Year-Old Daughter Home Alone. [ Midland, Texas ]
Reason Foundation ^ | 10.11.2021 | LENORE SKENAZY

Posted on 10/11/2021 9:58:49 AM PDT by george76

When my daughter was 12 she'd walk down the streets of Shanghai to get donuts," says the mom, Megan McMurry..

A federal judge has ruled that two cops who work at a public school in Midland, Texas, can be sued for seizing a 14-year-old from her family's apartment because she was there alone. Despite her pleas, the officers did not let the girl call her parents for hours, nor would they let her pick up the phone when her father called. They also searched the family's home without a warrant.

School Resource Officers Kevin Brunner and Alexandra Weaver do not enjoy blanket qualified immunity, ruled U.S. District Judge David Counts, in a case that began with a mom making painstaking plans for her children's supervision when she had to be out of the country for five days and her husband was deployed overseas.

In 2018, Megan McMurry was a special education teacher at a Midland junior high school, married to Adam McMurry, a soldier in the Mississippi Army National Guard. The family had lived in six countries over the course of 10 years, and her kids were used to independence.

"When my daughter was 12 she'd walk down the streets of Shanghai to get donuts," says McMurry.

When the family moved to Midland, the daughter, Jade, opted for online homeschooling. She was home alone for a good part of each day, which is perfectly legal, so long as a parent is not putting a child in harm's way.

In the meantime, McMurry took her 12-year-old son Connor with her to the junior high across town where she worked. He had perfect attendance.

But when the family learned their dad, overseas already, was being mobilized for another stint in Kuwait, McMurry thought the family should consider moving there to be together. She had a job offer at a Kuwaiti school and wanted to visit it before making her decision.

Her kids didn't want to come on the five-day trip—in part because Connor didn't want to ruin his perfect attendance streak—so McMurry arranged for the kids to be in the care of neighbors, Vanessa and Gabe Vallejos. Jade, the 14-year-old, babysat the Vallejos family's six-year-old for several hours every afternoon, so the families were close.

As for Connor getting to school, McMurry arranged for the school's counselor—another nearby neighbor—to drive him.

On Thursday night, October 25, 2018, she boarded the plane for Kuwait.

On Friday morning, the school counselor realized she wouldn't be able to pick up Connor after all, and asked the school resource officer—Weaver, who also lived nearby—to drive him instead. When Weaver didn't answer her telephone, the counselor arranged for someone else to drive the boy, according to McMurry.

Weaver called Child Protective Services (CPS) to report children left home alone. She also called her supervisor, Brunner, and the two went to the McMurry home for a welfare check on Jade.

This is where things got ugly.

The cops had the apartment building manager knock on the family's door. Jade answered and the cops told her she shouldn't be home alone. Jade started crying and asked to call her dad, McMurry says. But the cops wouldn't allow it. They did allow her to change into warmer clothes, since they were going to take her away for an interrogation. While she was in her room she managed to text her dad, "I'm scared! The police are here."

Meanwhile, Weaver went rifling through the cabinets.

The cops put Jade in the squad car and drove her to the middle school her brother was attending, according to McMurry. Bodycam footage shows her crying and begging the cops to let her call her father, but they refused to do so.

At the school, the cops kept Jade in their custody for several hours as they questioned her, asking things like, "Were you going to have a party?" They pulled Connor out of class and questioned him, too.

Meanwhile, CPS dispatched an investigator to the school. He asked the cops if they had called the parents.

McMurry says that when the cops said no, the CPS investigator was incredulous, since that's the first thing they're supposed to do.

Attorneys for Brunner and Weaver did not respond to requests for comment.

The CPS investigator was dismayed that the cops had told his agency that the children were abandoned and truant, because obviously Connor was at school, and the cops were also aware that Jade was homeschooled. (Believe it or not, Weaver and McMurry had been friends before this.) When Jade explained the arrangements her mom had made for their supervision, and CPS ascertained this was all true, it closed the case then and there.

But the cops did not.

When McMurry returned from Kuwait, she faced two felony charges of child abandonment. She turned herself in and spent 19 hours in jail before being released on bail.

Long story short, almost a year later—she was suspended without pay the entire time— McMurry's case came to trial. Brunner claimed to be on a prearranged vacation. McMurry, eager to get the case heard, allowed the trial to proceed without him.

Her neighbors, the Vallejoses, testified. The CPS investigator and his supervisors testified. The school counselor testified. Connor and Jade testified. When Weaver testified and was asked why she didn't let Jade talk to her dad, she replied she hadn't wanted to worry the man. In fact, here's some of the transcript:

Q: Do you not remember Jade telling you that her dad is trying to call her and you told her not to answer that phone?

A: Now that you've stated that, I do recall that occurring.

Q: So her father is trying to call her when you're taking her from her home to Abell Middle School and you're telling her…not to answer the phone when her father is calling?

A. Correct I didn't want to cause him any undue stress.

The trial took four days. The jury deliberated for five minutes and found McMurry not guilty.

Now McMurry is suing the officers for violating her Fourth and 15th Amendment rights. Her suit alleges that they searched her home without a warrant and seized her daughter illegally. The cops are not supposed to remove children from a home without alerting the parents, unless there is an immediate threat to the children's life and limb. Since the law is so well-established on those protocols that the officers had to have been aware of them, the federal judge has waived their plea for qualified immunity and is allowing the lawsuit to proceed.

This is particularly sweet for McMurry because she knows what actual abandonment looks like.

"My mother was a drug-addicted drug dealer," she says. "I grew up in foster care from the time I was 11. I would be in a two-week shelter, then a 30-day shelter, you know how it goes. I went to 25 different high schools by the time I graduated with a 4.0."

It was her hard-won resilience that got her to adulthood, and resilience is exactly what she and her husband are trying to instill in their kids. That's why she let them stay home without her. She knew they'd be responsible, and she knew this was not something impossible for young people to handle.

Clearly, the apple is not falling far from the tree. In a letter to the circuit court, Jade wrote that she wants everyone "to know what these two officers did to me and my family for no reason."

"My parents have taught me to work hard for anything I want and to self-advocate," wrote Jade. "I may not have known my rights that day, and they definitely didn't inform me either, but I knew what they were doing was wrong."


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; US: Texas
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To: Lurker

I agree.


61 posted on 10/11/2021 11:10:18 AM PDT by sport
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To: george76

When we were kids (as in “kindergarten”), the school was a mile away. It didn’t matter if it was raining, cold, a foot of snow, dark because they were messing with daylight savings time, — whatever, we all walked to school, and back. Usually mom was at home making and serving the food, but on weekends and during the summer, she’d be out doing errands. We would be entirely on our own all day. Rule was, home by six.

And God help anybody that messed with a kid. No one ever did in my time, but in the previous generation there was at least one instance of a man going to work, and never coming home. Rumor is, he was disappeared by the men.


62 posted on 10/11/2021 11:14:45 AM PDT by Born to Conserve
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To: EEGator
Close to half of Gen X kids went home to an empty home

They called us latchkey kids.

63 posted on 10/11/2021 11:15:10 AM PDT by monkeyshine (live and let live is dead)
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To: george76

“Weaver and McMurry had been friends at one time.”

Start with that and go from there.

This is rotten to the core.

The cops need to be hung by a lamp post on Scarborough Drive.


64 posted on 10/11/2021 11:15:46 AM PDT by Sequoyah101 (Politicians are only marginally good at one thing, being politicians. Otherwise they are fools.I ha)
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To: Rebelbase

Well we were taught personal responsibility at home and in the schools because parents were interested in developing foundations that matter under their children. Today it’s not the case because the focus is on the ridiculous in schools and at home.

We were poor but I recall my mom limiting TV time even then. She always was telling us to go outside and enjoy the day....and we did. Todays kids sit behind computers or are attached to their cellphones even when they’re together. It’s awful what kids are missing in life.


65 posted on 10/11/2021 11:17:38 AM PDT by caww ( )
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To: george76

Any officious jackass who tried to pull me out of my house under these circumstances would have gotten his ass kicked . Then when my parents got back and heard about it he’d have gotten his ass kicked again. 1972 was a long time ago in more ways than one…


66 posted on 10/11/2021 11:17:41 AM PDT by TalBlack (We have a Christian duty and a patriotic duty. God help us.)
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To: EEGator

True. I wore a key on a string like a necklace when I was 12. Both parents worked.


67 posted on 10/11/2021 11:19:05 AM PDT by ArcadeQuarters (Remember the 2020 backstabbers. No more RINOs ever!)
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To: george76

I was in Korea for a year. wWere i this father when I got home i’d find and beat hell out of these two and dare a jury to convict me.


68 posted on 10/11/2021 11:20:02 AM PDT by Joe Boucher (Dementia Joe and the WhoreStacey, leaders of the Free world. ( F-you dementia Joe.))
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To: george76

I can understand her wanting to haul the police officers into court, but the police force and the city are the ones with deep pockets. Include them in the suit as well.


69 posted on 10/11/2021 11:22:52 AM PDT by DoodleDawg
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To: Joe Boucher

Just curious,what does Korea have to do with this ?

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70 posted on 10/11/2021 11:24:06 AM PDT by Mears (.)
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To: gitmo

i think she meant first, fifth and fourth amendments.

No person shall be held to answer for a capital, or otherwise infamous crime, unless on a presentment or indictment of a Grand Jury, except in cases arising in the land or naval forces, or in the Militia, when in actual service in time of War or public danger; nor shall any person be subject for the same offence to be twice put in jeopardy of life or limb; nor shall be compelled in any criminal case to be a witness against himself, nor be deprived of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor shall private property be taken for public use, without just compensation.


71 posted on 10/11/2021 11:31:16 AM PDT by teeman8r (Armageddon won't be pretty, but it's not like it's the end of the world or something)
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To: dware

I wasn’t referring to all oil field workers as dregs, but some of them are, pretty bad ones. Please try to deny this.


72 posted on 10/11/2021 11:32:42 AM PDT by fwdude (If you don’t think you are in a battle w/ the culture for your children then you are already losing.)
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To: YeahBuddy

Already been found not guilty, so no, a jury did not think they had broken any laws.

But the cops most certainly violated multiple constitutional rights.


73 posted on 10/11/2021 11:46:36 AM PDT by Valpal1
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To: DoodleDawg

She did and they are. The officers tried to play the qualified immunity card and lost, bigly. So they remain in the dock along with the school district.

Hopefully the settlement will be enough to buy a house and send the kids to college or trade school.


74 posted on 10/11/2021 11:53:30 AM PDT by Valpal1
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To: YeahBuddy
No one said they were staying with the neighbors.

They were left in their care.

Which means that they would make sure they were ok on a regular basis. As this was an apartment building the neighbors were right there. So your little fantasy of the poor 14 year old left all alone to take care of her brother is wrong.

75 posted on 10/11/2021 11:55:08 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (I had my emotional DNA done. Turns out I am a reincarnation of Subadar Prag Tewarri.)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear

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76 posted on 10/11/2021 11:59:40 AM PDT by Bookshelf
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To: Mears

Female from Mass. I doubt you were ever in the military over seas worried about your family back home.
These kids were being taken care of properly and were unnecessarily traumatized by these two gestapo jerks.
Korea just happens to be where I was over seas during my military stint.
I was offered, Kwajalein, Brussels, Panama, or Berlin. I chose Korea cause it was so very different from anything I’d been exposed to or would in the future.
Downtown Seoul, Yongson, command center.


77 posted on 10/11/2021 12:04:46 PM PDT by Joe Boucher (Dementia Joe and the WhoreStacey, leaders of the Free world. ( F-you dementia Joe.))
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To: Allegra

CPS is pretty bad in a lot of places.


And yet here, this was too ridiculous for CPS.


78 posted on 10/11/2021 12:10:24 PM PDT by lepton ("It is useless to attempt to reason a man out of a thing he was never reasoned into"--Jonathan Swift)
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To: WMarshal
Thin blue line indeed. We no longer have police, just overpaid prison guards and kapos.

and if you ever thought they'd stand up for what's right, just look at what is going on in Australia
79 posted on 10/11/2021 12:45:45 PM PDT by Karma_Sherab
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To: SkyDancer

Times are different. Sex trafficking of minors is a huge problem thanks to internet porn and hookup sites. Nowhere is safe.


80 posted on 10/11/2021 12:54:11 PM PDT by dragonblustar (2 Peter 2:14,1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
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