I agree that Trump was a great president but he was not perfect. Far from it. And one of his flaws, pride, is a very destructive thing and I believe ultimately let us to where we are today.
Siding with the left on gay marriage, and having your wife come out right before the election to announce it to the public, is telling God you know more than him. And that will never work out good for anyone.
I’ve never seen nor heard of a ‘perfect’ president.
And I’ve never seen a political campaign that didn’t necessitate at least a little bit of ‘pandering’ to interest groups.
And what if Melania really believed this? Would you want her to lie, or her husband to ‘shut her up’? What if Trump actually believed it? Would that make him any less the great President that he was?
Melania has lived and worked in a field where she probably encountered many gay people, heard their stories, and had sympathy with them and their situations. I doubt you have that same viewpoint or understand it.
I personally dislike the concept of ‘gay marriage’, but I have no problem with gay people ‘jumping the broom’ in some legal way. It’s healthier and better for them - as it is for everyone and society - to be in a committed, monogamous, long-term union.