Agreed, D1. Knowing that someone important or important to you is being supportive, even if only in words, can be a major positive in how someone handles a crisis.
My Mom has been going through a tough time, health-wise, and presently is in rehab. Although I live 90 minutes away, I try to visit often (it’s through a dang outside window - brrr!!! - due to COVID) often and since many days I cannot, those days I call her once if not twice a day. Plus we do Zoom meetings with other family members participating too, when possible. The main purpose is to remind Mom regularly that she has lots of support, and to help keep her spirits up. So, we can’t PHYSICALLY help, but, the emotional support is important. Without it, the odds of a bad outcome go up substantially.
Aside from that, some people may not like it, but the reality is that optics = votes.
Thanks Paul. Appreciate the note of agreement.
This is a tough time with your mom. Sorry you’re having to through this with her right now. This isolation is unreal, and I know it’s tough on her
and you guys. Best of luck with that.