You feel sorry for the abuser??? Try Wal-Mart or McDonald’s. I’m so glad he was arrested. I couldn’t watch the whole video. It was horrible. Recently I received a call for a reference. They asked if they would be good working with old people. I said yes because they are kind, caring and patient!
Of course I feel sorry for the victim. There is no justification for the abuse he received at the hands of the abuser.
That said, yes, I do feel some compassion for the kid as well. He was in the wrong job, was clearly frustrated, and made some extremely poor choices. He MUST be punished, of course. And I feel a bit sorry for him. I hope he straightens up his act.