I agree. I also am all for these little shrinking violets to smack people in the face and denounce them right then and there before calling the cops. All this shaking and crying is for the birds.
I’m pretty much an either-or kind of guy.
If women want to be delicate little flowers who are easily traumatized by big strong men, then that’s fine. They can be housewives and spend their time in the kitchen making sandwiches while I protect them.
Or women can be feminists, and powerful, and ready to take on the world. In which case the constant I’m-a-victim crap needs to totally stop.