Nope! I think Buttgig’s husband wants him to stay submissive! I believe Buttgig is the catcher in this “pitcher/catcher” scenario. If ya know what I mean.....
I thought Butti might be, but then I looked up his “husband” online. The “husband” is much younger, seems petulant and immature, took Butti’s name, brags how he does the shopping and cooking, is more effeminate…