Each individual chooses whether they go to Hell, Purgatory or Heaven.
Jesus dies for our sins on the cross, but we accept Jesus in Baptism by our faith and actions. We choose the ways of the world or the ways of Jesus. We choose sin or not to sin.
Jesus wants us all to be with Him in Heaven, but He gives us free will to accept salvation or reject salvation.
He is a God of Mercy and Justice.
You continue to adsum to Scripture that is not correct.
There is either Hell or Heaven. There is no "purgatory".
18“He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. John 3:18 NASB