That kenyan Commie f#ck was busy, and a fast way Up The Ladder was to please him.
I retired in 07, contracted a few years, then worked University/mil research for another 7, my interactions were with O8and below, mostly. Had quite a few discussion about this issue. Never heard one say that they had to kiss ass, but hey, from your foxhole all senior field grade or GOs are patent Liars...
What are your bona fides?
Major, USA, retired
24 enlisted and commissioned
Cbt Eng, ORSA, StratPlans,etc.