[ConservativeMind]

“...but I’ve found that when a man hears there’ll be no sex before marriage, he sees a senseless relationship and a waste of his time. And depending on his level of education he sees either a religious zealot or a whack job or a lesbian-in-denial.”

And I have found that men like this are nut jobs with insatiable sexual needs who are far from a godly man.

To such men: Enjoy Hell.

[grey_whiskers]

That also depends on the tone of voice in which she says it.
If it’s clear she gave it away to several other men before you, but with *you*, she’s suddenly Polly Purebred, it’s possible that she sees you only as a meal ticket, or her last gasp at avoiding spinsterhoid. And a marriage where the woman doesn’t tingle for the man, or worse, still tingles for past lovers, is a recipe for infidelity or divorce rape.