Translation: she got into relationships with men who were fine with having her around as long as it meant "no strings" sex, but who were uninterested in actually marrying her.
Women may understand this reality intellectually, but not emotionally: they need to spend their youthful years looking for a man who will actually be interested in marriage, not in engaging in "Sex and the City" fantasies. Women keep getting into relationships with men who are "out of their league", but who are willing to keep them around fox sex, until a woman they like better comes along.
“Women keep getting into relationships with men who are “out of their league”, but who are willing to keep them around fox sex, until a woman they like better comes along.”
I have an older female friend who’s first boyfriend was a billionaire with two Lear jets. They dated for three years.
Ever since, she’s dated attorneys, businessmen, and many other higher profile men. Most all are divorced, which she sees as making them inherently undesirable at some level, and when the men don’t keep her entertained enough, she complains and the relationship ends.
She’s now beyond her 50’s and unmarried, but very desirous of being married. She’s told me she had the opportunity to marry many “nice men,” but they all seemed boring and had less money than she’d become accustomed to being around.
She has no one to fall back on and her health and drive have waned to where she finds it very hard to get to work each day. She sees marriage as her “out” from these circumstances.
What can anyone do to positively impact that aside from encouraging her to live her life for Christ and if something happens, it happens?
Women think that since for a woman, sex=relationship, and “ready to commit”, that she is actually capable of landing any guy she sleeps with.
Wrong.
Guys use attractive women whom they don’t intend to marry, as bragging rights to other men.