One of my best friends portrayed the exact same scenario, she was thin, long hair, college degree in textiles, sewed wedding dressed, stayed home, husband worked at being a business executive, she home schooled, beautiful home and kids, six of them and the whole thing spun apart because he was an abusive jerk who picked her up and threw her on the floor, bashed her head into the brick hearth and told her if she ever left him it would be without a penny to her name. She had to divorce him to save her life and found out during the divorce he had a rental house, complete with a girlfriend. Hope your ms America is not living a nightmare.
Said Miss America is, indeed, living the dream. He’s a kind man with a good income, works from home, works out keeping up with her still-great looks, just gave her a magazine-style dream kitchen, etc. Model family. (Have their heated/stressed moments as any family might, but nothing bad AFAIK.)