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Sorry you completely missed the he point

Women are not achievements

They were always a blessing to me no matter how short the encounter or relationship

I treated everyone of them with the same respect and attention I would have my first love

I know too well how I felt when I was alone

Never took women for granted nor viewed them as conquests

My more rake associates used to tease me I wanted to be in love with them all

I learned women don’t really do casual NSA sex as well as they purport nor did I frankly

However a good marriage or relationship is an achievement ..like raising children well

My relationship with my daughters is my most cherished achievement since you’re bringing up such things

Through thick and thin despite my ex wife and my husband in law at the time best efforts my girls came to me as soon as they could and now years later they are young women of 28 and 31 and are my staunchest allies in life and I adore them

Many a man would have left such travails behind and I can almost see why.

So yes I consider that an achievement.

The one that means the most to me.