Posted on 06/18/2019 10:20:19 AM PDT by GIdget2004
In the months that he has served as President Trump’s acting secretary of defense, Patrick Shanahan has worked to keep domestic violence incidents within his family private. His wife was arrested after punching him in the face, and his son was arrested after a separate incident in which he hit his mother with a baseball bat. Public disclosure of the nearly decade-old episodes would re-traumatize his young adult children, Shanahan said.
On Tuesday, Trump announced in a tweet that Shanahan would not be going through with the nomination process, which had been delayed by an unusually lengthy FBI background check, “so that he can devote more time to his family.”
Shanahan spoke publicly about the incidents in interviews with The Washington Post on Monday and Tuesday.
“Bad things can happen to good families . . . and this is a tragedy, really,” Shanahan said. Dredging up the episode publicly, he said, “will ruin my son’s life.”
In November 2011, Shanahan rushed to defend his then 17-year-old son, William Shanahan, in the days after the teenager brutally beat his mother. The attack had left Shanahan’s ex-wife unconscious in a pool of blood, her skull fractured and with internal injuries that required surgery, according to court and police records.
Two weeks later, Shanahan sent his ex-wife’s brother a memo arguing that his son had acted in self-defense.
“Use of a baseball bat in self-defense will likely be viewed as an imbalance of force,” Shanahan wrote. “However, Will’s mother harassed him for nearly three hours before the incident.”
Details of the incidents have started to emerge in media reports about his nomination, including a USA Today report Tuesday about the punching incident in 2010.
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Being a parent and a spouse is a tremendous responsibility, for some kids or domestic situations that can be a very heavy cross.
Hope he takes this opportunity to find some additional community assistance in whatever township he lives.
Its “ok” to go through marriage counseling and personal counseling. Its definitely “ok” to seek help when things reach a level beyond “normal.”
Church Pastors can probably provide you with a resources for family support.
The President didn’t know about this BEFORE making the nomination?
That’s rather shocking. Makes you wonder how someone with so much baggage could be selected in the first place. Insufficient vetting? I wasn’t really comfortable with Shanahan just because of his connections to Boeing.
Meanwhile, the Secretary of the Army, Mark Esper, has been named the new Acting Secretary of Defense, according to a recent Trump tweet.
Sounds like mom was a violent drunk
Likely borderline
[[Likely borderline]]
Was briefly involved with a women with BPD.
One of the worst experiences of my life.
(I’m not condoning what happened here before anybody goes into vapor lock)
Freepers before they launch characteristic scold should read the whole article
You’re lucky btw
This article reminds me of part of the Monty Python skit involving the television game show "Blackmail":
Announcer: Hello! Hello! Hello! Thank you,thank you. Hello good evening and welcome, to BLACKMAIL! Yes, it's another edition of the game in which you can play with *yourself*. (applause) And to start tonight's show, let's see our first contestant, all the way from Manchester, on the big screen please: MRS. BETTY TEAL! (applause, which suddenly stops when the clap track tape breaks) Hello, Mrs. Teal, lovely to have you on the show. Now Mrs. Teal, if you're looking in tonight, this is for 15 pounds: and is to stop us from revealing the name of your LOVER IN BOULTON!! So, Mrs. Teal, send us 15 pounds, by return of post please, and your husband Trevor, and your lovely children Diane, Janice, and Juliet, need never know the name... of your LOVER IN BOULTON!
I’m beginning to think that Ikea has better cabinets than the President does.
If the mother was violent the kid defended himself. That kind of abuse builds until finally it’s made to stop.
He has a new family and new wife, his life will be put through even more trauma. He didn’t hit his wife, his wife hit him. He didn’t hit his son, his son defended himself against his mom.
You know...knee-jerk slams like yours at President Trump are so tiresome. How do you expect him to know 8-yr-old details of someone’s private life? Shanahan was being vetted by the FBI in an unusually lengthy process according to the article. The details are only just now emerging and Shanahan is no longer the nominee. What more do you want?
It sounds like he himself did not instigate any of the violence. Trying to save the rest of them from the Kavanaugh treatment apparently.
Democrats are truly horrible, horrible people.
No, they are all the same. Trumps cabinet is the only one exposed.
Marriage counseling doesn’t work; staying together “for the kids” is a bad option, just get a divorce and heal.
My God,it is NOT that hard to make a list,vet the list,confer with the best advisors and make a sound decision. A very serious problem with POTUS is that he has HORRIBLE advisors!.
“Makes you wonder how someone with so much baggage...”
Easily triggered, aren’t we? Read the article again—it’s beyond the pale. This information should have been uncovered for Shanahan’s first government appointment, and I don’t understand how it was overlooked by Boeing.
It’s an unforced error.
Surely you see that.
>>>Marriage counseling doesn’t work; staying together “for the kids” is a bad option, just get a divorce and heal.
Strongly disagree. Unless we’re talking about dangers to life and health Marriage isn’t something that is trashed. People who are married have a duty to work it out. Yes they have a duty to their kids also to work it out.
Marriage counseling does in fact help, if it doesn’t in your case, fire the counselor and get another one. Kids in divorced homes statistically are more at risk for many kinds of life endangering behavior.
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