As is apparent by the way the eu is sticking by its small member Ireland, a small nation like Scotland can expect more freedom in the European Union rather than the British Union, eh?
And no, the EU is Perfectly ine with a soft border in Ireland.in fact that’s the irish backstop which the leavers don’t want.
Scotland is part of the UK. The people voted and decided that. That issue is done and dusted for at least a generation.