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On Being a Woman in America While Trying to Avoid Being Assaulted
Paris Review | January 7, 2019 | R. O. Kwon

Posted on 01/11/2019 1:40:52 PM PST by yoe

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To: yoe

If R.O. were really down with the cause and a true comrade, she would stop spreading dissent and give it up on the regular for the downtrodden proles she’s complaining about.
Power to the people.


41 posted on 01/11/2019 2:51:54 PM PST by MrBambaLaMamba (No hay dos sin tres)
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To: SamAdams76

This is like telling me to stop dressing well so I don’t attract gold-diggers.

Well, sorta.

You see, I know many women who think this. Even those who are armed. If they are armed then they are not worried about being a victim, they are worried about killing another person. (Bravado aside, this is the way we should all think when carrying lethal force)

Statistically, it’s hard to ignore. Only women who open-carry don’t have this worry.

We still have a crisis in this country - We have a stark, frightening shortage of armed women. This only proves it.

My wife runs a clothing store. We have concluded a conspiracy theory: Women’s clothes simply do NOT allow gun carry. It’s very tough to put it all together. Even thigh rigs are so uncomfortable that women simply forget them day by day. I went through about a 100 holsters before I found one so comfy that I wear it without anything in it. It’s natural to carry now. Without a gun belt and a great holster, daily gun carry becomes a real drag. And if you’re a woman with the current choices of styles and clothes you’re pretty SOL. Really, the only solution is a western style gun belt. Cartridge slots and all.

If I were a woman I would make that my carry. Yes, I would gear up like Annie Oakley on a daily basis. Drop-leg holsters are the king of comfort and the emperor of making everyone around you being scared to a point of calling the police.

But as a woman ? Especially one with a child ? It would be the ultimate sign of.. Well... “don’t tread on me”

So yes, the author has reason to be concerned. She has the ability to cure all of her woes, and she will never, EVER explore any of those cures. She has chosen to be a victim and for that I agree with her - But I offer her utterly zero pity.


42 posted on 01/11/2019 2:56:31 PM PST by Celerity
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To: Chainmail
"Concealed carry and and decent training would go a long way towards peace of mind for this lady."

She'd be too scared to pick up the gun, much less actually fire it.

43 posted on 01/11/2019 3:03:43 PM PST by Wonder Warthog (The Hog of Steel and NRA Life Member)
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To: pepsi_junkie
".... Perhaps, just maybe, some of the issue is with her....."

Gee, ya' think?

I love it when these type people say they don't have any issues, as they proceed to spell out to the world exactly what their issues are.

Look in the mirror, sweetie. You'll see the problem staring right back at you in the face.

44 posted on 01/11/2019 3:07:31 PM PST by HotHunt (Reagan was good but TRUMP IS GREAT!)
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To: yoe

That old toxic masculinity

AggroBroad

"What are you so aggravated about?"

"I spent over an hour putting on all of my make-up, coordinating my pants and blouse and doing my hair.  And l had barely got out the front door when some strange guy harassed me!"

"Wow.  What did he do?"

"He noticed!"

45 posted on 01/11/2019 3:22:26 PM PST by sparklite2 (Don't mind me. I'm just a contrarian.)
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To: yoe
Paranoid bimbo with hyper-inflated self-estimation of her own desirability.

She totally and forevermore lost all credibility when she penned:

"On the day Brett Kavanaugh was voted into the Supreme Court despite multiple, very credible accusations of sexual misconduct, I left my apartment. I went around town, running errands while trying not to cry."

46 posted on 01/11/2019 3:24:10 PM PST by TXnMA ("Allah": Satan's current Alias | "Barack": Satan's minion | "Muslims": Satan's useful idiots...)
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To: kosciusko51

“Perhaps if she didn’t live in liberal city cesspools, she would fear so much...

You nailed it. The great mass of perverts live in big cities. Move to a small town, sweetie, and life will be more pleasant.


47 posted on 01/11/2019 3:33:38 PM PST by sergeantdave (Teach a man to fish and he'll steal your gear and sell it)
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To: yoe

For one thing stop supporting “prison reform.” The criminals are mostly men, don’t you know?


48 posted on 01/11/2019 3:34:51 PM PST by Brilliant
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To: Celerity

Umm, what does every woman take with her everywhere except to maybe the shower or bathtub?

Her purse!

There are now a lot of holster purses on the market-I personally bought the wife a Browning for Christmas. She likes it OK but it’s way too big for the small Remington RM 380 she totes...

Just an idea: it might behoove your wife to start selling such in her clothing store-with first considering her clientele, location, etc. I am NOT a businessman, so...


49 posted on 01/11/2019 3:37:57 PM PST by snuffy smiff (Build the Wall and build it tall, then build a gallows and hang them ALL!)
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To: yoe

Why don’t you just carry a gun?


50 posted on 01/11/2019 3:51:28 PM PST by fruser1
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To: kosciusko51

To point up your post, my county, in West Central Texas, had 4 “violent” crimes in 2018 and 5 “property crimes”.

I’ve been here over a half a century and I’ve only heard of one rape.


51 posted on 01/11/2019 4:06:58 PM PST by Cen-Tejas
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To: snuffy smiff

Oh, don’t you worry about it ! We’re taking things in a direction soon.

The problem is that we don’t create the clothes. We only source them. There are plenty of sources for carry handbags and holsters. Competing is tough.

On our supply side, there aren’t great options. Even in survival stuff - People out there are already selling at the least profits I’ve ever seen. We were approved to resell 5.11 Tactical and we were getting prices that were higher than sellers on Ebay !

There is no profit margin, so there is no business. We’re still looking for that magic thing to tie it all together. I did get access to about 400 very, very high end knives though and I’m trying to work that deal out. Again, the profit margins aren’t that great but it’s a market edge (Pardon the pun) because 99.999999% of people are selling chinese garbage knives.

The other side of the equation is that 99.999999% of people are buying the cheapest garbage they can possibly find.

It’s no secret that retail / bargain sales are really tough these days.

On that note, she is carrying a CCW purse. It’s expensive and its... a damned purse. I could get a woman’s purse away in under a minute.


52 posted on 01/11/2019 4:10:06 PM PST by Celerity
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To: yoe

Try telling that to female runners. The clothes are form-fitting, and in the summertime, the shorts can be quite short.


53 posted on 01/11/2019 4:11:31 PM PST by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (Ya lyublyu kovfefe!)
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To: snuffy smiff

Purse carry also introduces another interesting dilemma...

I have a 4 year old and a safe. I wear the pistol “Almost constantly”. The solution ? I installed a strong magnet in my closet, far away from her hands (She isn’t aware that it’s there). This way I can grab it quickly on the way out the door. But I even walk around the house with a gun on my hip. When I don’t, it’s in the safe or in the closet near the ceiling.

She’ll have to adapt a new habit. When she comes home the purse can no longer “just go on the coat rack”. Nay, it has to be treated like the weapon itself. A holster doesn’t have the same need.

So purse carry can often leave the firearm away from the person, which is a recipe for disaster whenever ANYONE (of any age) is around.


54 posted on 01/11/2019 4:21:53 PM PST by Celerity
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To: yoe

The “sexual assault” these women of the #metoo crowd “suffer” in liberal enclaves of America is a joke compared to what happens to their sisters in some areas of Minnesota, the UK, Sweden, Denmark and Germany at the hands of troglodyte Muslims. Are they ever going to stand up for the REAL victims?


55 posted on 01/11/2019 4:24:59 PM PST by FrdmLvr (They never thought she would lose.)
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To: yoe

Back in the olden days, if a woman was attacked,the attacker had to get through thick clothing, petticoats, corsets, whalebone stays and much more.

Meanwhile, the woman being attacked would be fighting back with several 10 inch long sharp hair pins shaped more like meat skewers, or she would pull out a derringer and....


56 posted on 01/11/2019 4:54:11 PM PST by Ruy Dias de Bivar
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To: PrairieLady2

Men are the victims of violent assault, robbery, murder much more than women are. Get real.


57 posted on 01/11/2019 5:35:53 PM PST by Az Joe (I AM TRUMP!)
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To: yoe

As the great Dave Chapple said:

“All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore’s uniform.”


58 posted on 01/11/2019 5:40:16 PM PST by Az Joe (I AM TRUMP!)
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To: yoe

Now can we repeal the 19th amendment?


59 posted on 01/11/2019 6:33:22 PM PST by eyeamok
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To: yoe

In Western Europe the days of dressing like that have basically ended, as their new arrivals don’t approve of it.


60 posted on 01/11/2019 7:38:10 PM PST by BobL (I eat at McDonald's and shop at Walmart - I just don't tell anyone.)
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