Find stuff that you like doing. Are there groups that get together to do stuff in your area? Make yourself available and get out there and you will find someone with commonalities. That isn’t going to happen in a bar. Church is another place if you are inclined to that persuasion. If you are not go anyway with an open mind/heart (assuming it’s a bible centered church based on basic sound doctrine).
Ahem, for me that did happen in a bar! Many times! But I live in Sodom! That may not be for everyone.
Join the choir and look out over the congregation.
Make your choice a proceed to woo her.
Consider; .... You're both in the same place for the same purpose in the same book on the same page .... ALL the happy life basics are present in the believer ... the rest is periphery.
The voice of experience from 1983 until cancer took her away in 2004.
The easiest lady to live with.
I was 35, she 27, both with worldly baggage the Lord handled nicely.
Our kids never heard us raise our voices .... never had to.