thats what I said - “so what?” She’s an adult. She likes men not boys. Maybe he is a 39 year old gym rat - he’s supposed to settle for “age appropriateness” ??
I have friends who married when he was 39 and she was 18. They are still together.
Ok, everybody time for a cold shower.
She is a college freshman on the gymnastics team.
He is her coach, and twice her age.
Nothing inappropriate here.