My daughterer married a Baptist Minister. I got over big time.
Well, we use alcohol. Mom and Dad didn’t have a problem with our doing so. They just chose not to use it. Mom, who’s passed, was Methodist. Dad’s Presbyterian. They came from large families, were the only dry sibs. Not sure where the choice to abstain came from. It was just their choice and we respected it. And it wasn’t a big deal.
The difference between a Catholic and a Baptist is that the Catholic will say hello to you in a liquor store.