And your BFF doesn’t even ask where you went at the party. She’s not mad that you abandoned her at the same party?
This is exactly right! As a woman I will say.. you do not EVER leave your friend in a place where some drunk guy had tried to rape you. You would grab her on the way out and take her with you! Even if you were upset and traumatized, the minute you are out of the house you will try to figure out how to rescue her.