Besides her walking into the wrong apartment, she noticed that he had not taken out the trash as he said he would.
Upon entering the apartment, she could see into the bathroom that he left the toilet seat up again...
Probably needed her ashes hauled too.
In general, the PC world that we live in has gotten us here. Hate to say it, was a copper for 25 years. I strongly felt that women had no place on the job, especially Patrol. Call me what you want, but its the truth. Plus there are too many former school teachers now on the streets , who have not a clue.