Your entire post is the best of the thread. I hope people will read it several times and heed your wisdom.
“Relationships are more than just two people. They are places, certain times, and all the wonderful things you have shared together. No one else will know those moments better than you two. If something should happen to break you up, you’ve just erased all the pleasant memories from decades of your life.
All those places where you used to go and share laughs, kisses, and special looks, will become no more than a familiar place missing the true spark that made it what it used to be.”
Thank you. I appreciate your response, and note of agreement.