But I'll say this to you, personally, Cronos.
You are a Catholic and a mensch.
It has been my almost unbelievably good fortune (gotta mention Divine Providence here) that the majority of men I have known --- at least that I have known well enough to actually know something about them --- have been like you, of your kind, your tribe.
My father, my brother, my work associates, my boyfriends before I got married, and now my husband. And my firstborn, Ben, Captain, USMC.
They are mensches. They would never think they could buy a woman with a drink. They actually wouldn't have sex with a woman unless they were married to her, or well and truly on the road to marriage.
They were sane, sound, morally realistic, worthy of respect, and decent.
How incredibly good is God! How incredibly God has blessed me! They were (and are) what I think of as "men".
The thing is, while it is morally good, I look at guys I know who don’t follow this - and they are dissatisfied. God gave us these commandments for a reason.