Look, I posted FACTS! It's IMPORTANT to know and understand what's what; so I supplied them. I wasn't denigrating, nor eschewing the "ideals" of Victorian chivalric codes of manners at all! In fact, they were and still ARE wonderful...all of them!
OTOH...it is important to understand that the original codes of chivalry were pretty awful and pretty far removed from what most people now connect to the word "chivalry".
I’m not forcing you to talk to me.