Gutted my first deer at age 18.
Ma'am, I wouldn't knock on your door unless I had my hat in my hands, my hands in plain sight, and a completely cheerful disposition :-)
When I was about 45, I was with a male bud in a saloon. The bartender asked "What can I get you ma'am?"
My buddy turned to me and said...."Remember when they called you "honey".
P.S. You can call me AJ.