I doubt any person could comfortably exist in her world....whether church, politics or any number of idiosyncrasies that drive her crazy...washing hands, picking up socks, chewing gum, et al. Love her to death but her perfect man will be hard to find. I think she was torn, desiring to mother some children vs. marriage.
Never wondered if she was gay, but would be an impossible woman to marry. Her career trumps all which is fine except when you have children or a husband.