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Policing Sexual Desire: The #MeToo movement’s impossible premise
City Journal ^ | January 14, 2018 | Heather Mac Donald

Posted on 01/16/2018 5:38:27 AM PST by C19fan

The New York Times now has a “gender editor” and “gender team,” created in the wake of the #MeToo movement to infuse feminist sensibility even further throughout the paper. The gender editor, Jessica Bennett, penned an op-ed last month that serves as a template for the hypocritical state of modern feminism. Bennett had unforced sex with a 30-year-old acquaintance when she was 19 because “saying ‘yes’ [was] easier than saying ‘no,’” as the op-ed’s title puts it. She allowed the encounter to proceed out of “some combination of fear (that I wasn’t as mature as he thought), shame (that I had let it get this far), and guilt (would I hurt his feelings?).” Naturally, Bennett attributes her passivity and embarrassment at that moment to “dangerously outdated gender norms.” It is the patriarchy, she claims, that makes “even seemingly straightforward ideas about sex—such as, you know, whether we want to engage in it or not—feel utterly complex.”

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TOPICS: Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: aimlessrant; chat; feminism; fluffpiece; metoo; sex
The Jacobins of the MeToo Movment remind me the Communists who wanted to create New Soviet Man.
1 posted on 01/16/2018 5:38:27 AM PST by C19fan
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To: C19fan

Yup. The corollary is certainly evident.


2 posted on 01/16/2018 5:41:58 AM PST by ought-six (Multiculturalism is national suicide, and political correctness is the cyanide capsule.)
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To: C19fan

Gloria Allred and her daughter should start a #PayMeToo hashtag.


3 posted on 01/16/2018 5:44:59 AM PST by SERKIT ("Blazing Saddles" explains it all.......)
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To: C19fan

Agree. Women are pretending they can be just like men and have no strings attached sex. However, most women are not wired that way.


4 posted on 01/16/2018 5:45:45 AM PST by OIFVeteran
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To: C19fan

>>The New York Times now has a “gender editor” and “gender team,” created in the wake of the #MeToo movement to infuse feminist sensibility even further throughout the paper. The gender editor, Jessica Bennett, penned an op-ed last month that serves as a template for the hypocritical state of modern feminism.

Tell the so-called feminist to run a DAILY column exposing the female teachers who were caught sexually taking advantage of the students under them.

#MeToo isn’t just something that happens to women and girls.


5 posted on 01/16/2018 5:49:17 AM PST by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: C19fan

Darwinian law dictates sexuality in all species. Feminism is an aberrant anti fertility cult. Restraints on males be it through the practice of exclusive marriage, monogomy chastity or other restraints (religious or social) have been promoted throughout human history. Given the huge emotional consequences of sexual interactions for some, the needs of the created children and the benefits of a society composed of intact family units, efforts have always been made to control male sexual behavior. These modern “feminists” are doing nothing new.


6 posted on 01/16/2018 5:49:48 AM PST by allendale (.)
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To: C19fan

Translating symbols into English:

Policing Sexual Desire: The (Pound)MeToo movement’s impossible premise


7 posted on 01/16/2018 5:50:29 AM PST by kosciusko51
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To: OIFVeteran

And women can sexually harass/assault women (especially when liquor and drugs come into play).

http://www.newsweek.com/melanie-martinez-rape-allegations-timothy-heller-736251
MELANIE MARTINEZ RAPE ACCUSER TIMOTHY HELLER REMAINED SILENT BECAUSE ‘VOICE’ STAR WASN’T ‘A MAN’: EXCLUSIVE
BY EMILY GAUDETTE ON 12/5/17 AT 6:51 PM

(Timothy here is a woman)


8 posted on 01/16/2018 5:51:30 AM PST by a fool in paradise (Did Barack Obama denounce Communism and dictatorships when he visited Cuba as a puppet of the State?)
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To: C19fan

The problem with most of these “movements” is they are mostly the ones who allowed, if not created, the problem to start with?


9 posted on 01/16/2018 5:52:43 AM PST by Leep (The dims better watch it..Trump is CRAZY!!)
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To: C19fan

Let’s restore the patriarchal gender norms under which nobody has sex with a person they’re not married to.


10 posted on 01/16/2018 6:29:24 AM PST by Tax-chick ("It's the end of the world as we know it ... if the sky is falling, I don't want to be below it.")
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To: Tax-chick

“........the female teachers who were caught sexually taking advantage of the students under them.”.......

Seems it’s the norm now days and happens all over the country. I am somewhat surprised at the age differences as well, many “older aged” women teachers.


11 posted on 01/16/2018 6:42:25 AM PST by DaveA37
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To: kosciusko51
The (Pound)MeToo movement’s

LOL, the irony. Hey people, before it was known as the "Hashtag", it was often called the pound sign, especially when dialing numbers. As a part time "Athiest", irony like this makes me believe in a higher power.

12 posted on 01/16/2018 6:44:42 AM PST by Paradox (Don't call them mainstream, there is nothing mainstream about the MSM.)
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To: Tax-chick

Actually from my study of history that was never the case. At the beginning of the twentieth century there was a bordello on every street corner in New York and in many other cities across the US.

It really comes down to basic biology. The sex drive is powered by testosterone and men have 8-10 times more testosterone than women. So on average men want to have sex much more often than women and if their wife won’t satisfy that need then many men will fulfill it in some way.
Not saying it’s right, because morally it’s not, but it is what it is.


13 posted on 01/16/2018 6:55:40 AM PST by OIFVeteran
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To: OIFVeteran

I said “patriarchal gender norm,” not “universal practice.”

People decided that, since the norm wasn’t universally observed, we could just do without norms entirely. It hasn’t worked out very well, as anyone with two functioning synapses could have predicted.


14 posted on 01/16/2018 8:03:19 AM PST by Tax-chick ("It's the end of the world as we know it ... if the sky is falling, I don't want to be below it.")
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To: C19fan

It is clear from this that women do not have the capacity to make decisions for themselves. It seems the Muslims are right, darn it. /sarc


15 posted on 01/16/2018 9:39:39 AM PST by R Rogers
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