[Mariner]

That’s a complete non-response to the questions.

I’m looking for understanding, and you offer platitudes in response?

[usconservative]

Don't argue with it and it'll go away.

You're fighting a losing battle. The Bible specifically says not to cast pearls before swine. I suggest you stop casting them.

[Salvation]

Every divorce situation is different. There is no way I could contribute to a solution.

Perhaps a counselor, pastor, priest could be of help.