A lot of truth in those three sentences.
Later at the company picnic he introduced me to his wife and three children.
I thought that my gaydar must have been off.
Not even a year later he dumped his wife for a series of progressively younger boy toys.
Some times the office would go out together and he would zero in on the most vulnerable female and pick her apart for the amusement of his arm candy.
He really hated women but was given a pass because he was homosexual.