[agatheringstorm]

I worked with dozens in graphics depts of investment banks in Manhattan. 75 percent are easy pickings. The other 25 percent I couldn’t tell until someone told me. The ones that aren’t really effeminate are a little tough to tell. Unless you ask them about their life. Which i didn’t get a chance to.

I have a theory to explain this discrepancy. Those who affect a "feminine" voice and mannerisms are actually closet transgenders. The non-affected are just garden variety gay. If you look up how transgender is defined, this explains the extreme butch appearance of supposedly lesbian women; they're not actually lesbians, by definition.

[dp0622]

That sounds pretty close to the truth.