I’m one of those crazy Christians so I have a somewhat different point of view for a largely Christian society.
Still, I think being frank about these things (we often act as if God would be surprised at sin) is helpful. Allow the occasion of falling into sin (which begins with ideas) to be a learning opportunity. Don’t worry, but do by all means ask God to see how to do better next time.
I am not condoning sin. I just get a little upset at people pointing out so very loudly the sins of others that they find SO OBJECTIONABLE. Everyone sins. There is someone who would find your sins or mine as objectionable as a poster here might find a gay person’s sins. For instance, someone here might really treat their spouse horribly, emotionally. And yet they might yell and carry on on FR about the horrible gays. Gd might well feel their decades of emotional cruelty to their long suffering spouse as way worse than a gay man succumbing to his desires.